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          Wedding Menus Made Easy
        
        
          It’s easy to go overboard planning your dream dinner. Use these tips to keep everything in check
        
        
          By Anna Sachse, CTW Features
        
        
          The wedding meal and bar tab typically are your top wed-
        
        
          ding expenses, and with never-ending online photos and
        
        
          magazine editorials featuring lavish stations, chic small bites
        
        
          and couture cocktails, it can be easy to get ahead of yourself
        
        
          and your pocketbook.
        
        
          Here, two wedding-planning experts offer tips to balance
        
        
          your dream dinner-and-drinks spread with your budget re-
        
        
          alities.
        
        
          EXPLORE YOUR OPTIONS
        
        
          Not sure if you’re feeling macaroni-and-cheese cupcakes
        
        
          and mugs of spiked cider or a raw bar and saketinis? Do a
        
        
          google search for different wedding reception styles and see
        
        
          what pops up.
        
        
          • Online resources put tons of options at your finger tips.
        
        
          You’re exposed to so much more than just what’s in your
        
        
          area, allowing you to pull ideas from experts around the
        
        
          world!
        
        
          • Use the images and ideas you find to build a dream menu
        
        
          that you can then share with your caterer and bartenders.
        
        
          Pinterest is amazing for helping you clarify your vision.
        
        
          • Of course, inspiration shots and menu requests are one
        
        
          thing, but you don’t want to go too far, to the point where
        
        
          you are directing your chef on how to cook. But most cater-
        
        
          ers will be open to working with you to create a special dish
        
        
          or two, or design a menu in the style you want that also plays
        
        
          up their talents.
        
        
          • Need help finding the actual caterer? A google search or
        
        
          wedding website may offer leads on caterers in your area.
        
        
          However, the best companies are typically found via refer-
        
        
          rals from past clients or other wedding vendors, says Lewis.
        
        
          Put out a request for suggestions on Facebook or Twitter
        
        
          (ask about food quality, price and how easy they were to
        
        
          work with) and email a florist or baker you love to see who
        
        
          tops their list.
        
        
          EDIT YOUR SELECTIONS
        
        
          Couples can definitely get carried away trying to do every-
        
        
          thing they see online, Hroncich says. The result can lack co-
        
        
          hesion and quickly get expensive.
        
        
          Rein yourself in by deciding on your priorities. If your goal is
        
        
          a big party, an ample bar will help, but even “ample” doesn’t
        
        
          have to break the bank. Offer a selection of white and red
        
        
          wines (Riesling to Chardonnay and Zinfandels to Merlots)
        
        
          and both a domestic and import beer. Kick it up a notch by
        
        
          offering regional products, cava or prosecco for your bubbly,
        
        
          and one or two favorite cocktails that you found during your
        
        
          online research. If you really want it all and don’t mind a lit-
        
        
          tle DIY, make sure you pick a venue that doesn’t charge you
        
        
          to bring in your own liquor. That can save a few thousand
        
        
          dollars on your bar tab.
        
        
          Keep costs down by choosing one or two things you truly fell
        
        
          in love with during your research that also will make a big
        
        
          impact. For example, you could have that gorgeous signature
        
        
          cocktail with a candied-fruit stir-stick and an elegant dessert
        
        
          table, but skip the 20 cute appetizers that caught your eye.
        
        
          Or if you’re truly obsessed with small bites, focus on options
        
        
          that will satisfy guests faster. Cheese and fruit will not fill
        
        
          people up for the night, but risotto balls and meat skewers
        
        
          will. And you can always ask your caterer to suggest unique
        
        
          and memorable dishes that are surprisingly budget-friendly,
        
        
          like gourmet renditions of stews, curries or even a hearty but
        
        
          stunning salad.
        
        
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